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long
/ˈlɔːŋ/
At its core, "long" represents extension—either in physical space or the passage of time. It is a foundational word that describes a stretch beyond the average or expected limit. When describing distance, it is neutral and objective. However, when applied to time, it often carries a subjective weight; a "long movie" may imply boredom or exhaustion, whereas a "long life" suggests fulfillment and endurance. As a verb, the word shifts from measurement to emotion. It evokes a sense of yearning or an aching void, distinguishing itself from simple "wanting" by adding a layer of emotional intensity and often a hint of melancholy or nostalgia.
💬Trò chuyện
I've been pulling an all-nighter. This paper is way too long.
JUST TAKE A NAP DEAR. LOVE GRANMA
Ý nghĩa
Ví dụ
This long line is honestly driving me insane!
I've been waiting for a long time, where are you?
God, I long to just quit and move to Bali.
The movie was way too long, I almost fell asleep.
I can't stay long; my boss is expecting me back.
That is a ridiculously long dress for a casual brunch.
It's been a long day; I just need some wine.
Why do you always take such long showers, seriously?
He has such long fingers; he must be a pianist.
I've longed for this moment since I was ten years old!
Cụm từ kết hợp
long distance
Covering a great physical space from one point to another.
long term
Occurring over or relating to a long period of time.
long haul
A journey or task that takes a long time or distance.
long shot
An attempt or guess that has a very small chance of succeeding.
long story short
Used to skip over details and get to the point quickly.
Cụm động từ
long for
To have a strong wish or desire for someone or something.
Thành ngữ & Tục ngữ
long story short
To omit tedious details and get to the main point of a story.
in the long run
Over a long period of time; eventually.
long face
A sad or disappointed facial expression.
before long
Soon; in a short amount of time.
long shot
An attempt or guess that has very little chance of succeeding.
Bối cảnh văn hóa
The Long Game: The Psychology of Delayed Gratification
In the realm of human psychology, the ability to play the "long game" is often the primary differentiator between fleeting success and enduring achievement. This concept is most famously illustrated by the Stanford Marshmallow Experiment, conducted in the late 1960s and early 70s. In this study, children were given a choice: one immediate reward (a single marshmallow) or two rewards if they could wait for a short period while the researcher left the room.
While the experiment initially seemed to suggest that those who could wait—those with a capacity for long-term thinking—were destined for higher SAT scores and better life outcomes, later reinterpretations of the data added a layer of nuance. It wasn't just about innate willpower; it was about trust and environmental stability. A child from an unstable background might logically conclude that a promised second marshmallow is a gamble not worth taking, whereas a child from a secure home knows that the long wait will actually pay off.
This psychological tension between immediate impulse and future gain is what defines our relationship with time. When we "long" for something, we are experiencing a gap between our current reality and a desired future state. The capacity to bridge this gap without succumbing to frustration is known as delayed gratification. In the modern era of instant notifications and one-click shopping, our collective ability to endure long periods of anticipation is eroding.
However, those who master the art of the long game find that the most rewarding experiences in life—building a career, nurturing a lifelong partnership, or mastering a complex craft—require a tolerance for the "long haul." The beauty of the long perspective is that it transforms struggle into progress. It allows us to view temporary setbacks not as failures, but as necessary chapters in a much longer, more complex narrative of growth.