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affair
/əˈfɛə/
When referring to romantic relationships, "affair" almost always implies a secret or forbidden relationship, usually involving infidelity. When used to describe business or personal matters (e.g., "financial affairs"), the word is often used in the plural form ("affairs") rather than the singular. In formal contexts, it can refer to political events or diplomatic situations, such as "foreign affairs," which describes a government's relationship with other countries.
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The gala should be a spiritual affair, not a checklist.
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Meanings
An event, occurrence, or set of circumstances, often one that is complex or scandalous.
"The whole affair was handled with great discretion by the press."
A romantic or sexual relationship between two people, typically one in which at least one partner is married to someone else.
"He had a brief affair with a colleague during his first year at the firm."
Examples
The whole affair was just a complete mess, honestly.
I can't believe he had an affair for three years!
Please, just stay out of my private affairs, okay?
It was a fancy affair, but the food was cold.
Look, this whole affair is getting way out of hand!
I'll handle my own financial affairs, thank you very much.
Was the wedding a small affair or something huge?
Who even started this scandalous affair in the first place?
Collocations & Compounds
extramarital affair
A romantic or sexual relationship where at least one partner is married to another person.
private affairs
Personal matters or business concerns that are not for public knowledge.
lavish affair
An event or occasion characterized by luxury and expensive tastes.
state affair
A matter of official government business or national importance.
scandalous affair
An event or relationship that causes public outrage or shock.
Idioms & Sayings
a state affair
A matter of official concern to the government or a sovereign nation.
love affair
A romantic or sexual relationship, often secret or illicit.
Cultural Context
The Dreyfus Affair: A Masterclass in State-Sponsored Injustice
When we speak of a scandalous "affair," few historical events carry the weight and systemic complexity of the Dreyfus Affair. This late 19th-century political crisis in France was not merely a legal mistake; it was a seismic cultural earthquake that split a nation into two warring camps: the Dreyfusards and the Anti-Dreyfusards.
The saga began in 1894 when Alfred Dreyfus, a Jewish captain in the French army, was falsely accused of treason—specifically, passing secret military documents to the German Empire. The evidence was flimsy, yet the verdict was swift. Dreyfus was publicly degraded and sentenced to life imprisonment on Devil's Island. This wasn't just about espionage; it was an affair fueled by virulent antisemitism and a rigid military hierarchy that refused to admit error even when proof of the real spy emerged.
What makes this particular affair so fascinating from a sociological perspective is how it birthed the modern concept of the "intellectual" as a political force. Émile Zola's famous open letter, "J'Accuse!," transformed a military court-martial into a public debate about human rights, truth, and the rule of law. Zola risked everything to expose the cover-up, arguing that the state's desire to protect its own reputation was more important to the generals than the actual innocence of a man.
The Dreyfus Affair serves as a timeless reminder of how easily nationalism can be weaponized against minority groups and how institutions often prefer a convenient lie over an inconvenient truth. It fundamentally reshaped French politics, leading to the eventual separation of church and state in 1905. To study this affair is to understand the fragile nature of justice when it collides with deep-seated prejudice and institutional pride.
Etymology
Derived from the Middle French word 'affaire', which comes from the Old French 'à faire' (literally 'to do'), rooted in the Latin phrase 'ad facere'. It evolved from meaning a thing to be done or a business matter into its current broader senses of an event, a personal concern, or a romantic liaison.