frayed

This term describes a state of gradual deterioration, whether physical or emotional. When applied to textiles, it suggests a loss of structural integrity where the weave has unraveled, often implying age, heavy use, or neglect. It is a descriptive term that evokes a tactile sense of roughness and wear.

In a psychological context, the word is almost exclusively used to describe nerves, patience, or relationships. It conveys a feeling of being stretched to the limit, where a person is on the verge of an emotional outburst or a total breakdown. This usage is more evocative than "stressed" or "tired," as it suggests a fragile state where the smallest additional pressure could cause a complete snap.