indulgence

This word carries a strong sense of permissiveness. When applied to oneself, it suggests a deliberate break from discipline or a reward, often tinged with a slight feeling of guilt or luxury. It is a softer, more positive term than greed or gluttony, emphasizing the pleasure of the act.

When applied to others, it shifts toward a lack of boundaries. It describes a dynamic where a person in power refuses to enforce rules or set limits, often resulting in the other person becoming spoiled or entitled. In a religious context, it transforms into a legalistic transaction of divine mercy.