wheedling
This term describes a specific type of manipulation characterized by persistent, sweet-talking flattery. It suggests a soft, coaxing approach rather than an aggressive or demanding one, often used when the speaker is trying to obtain a favor or forgiveness from someone who is initially reluctant.
In terms of register, it is more descriptive and slightly more formal than "sweet-talking," but it carries a stronger connotation of insincerity. It implies a calculated effort to wear down another person's resistance through superficial charm.
Meanings
Etymology
Originating in the mid-16th century, the word is likely a derivative of the English dialectal term 'weedle', meaning to coax or entice. It shares a semantic space with words describing soft, persistent persuasion, though its precise linguistic root remains somewhat obscure in early modern English records.