角
かど
kado
The word refers to a physical point where two edges meet, characterized by sharpness or a distinct change in direction. This physical "sharpness" is extended metaphorically to describe interpersonal friction or discord. When a person's manner is "sharp" or "pointed," it is said to create "corners" in a relationship, leading to conflict.
In social contexts, the phrase "kado ga tatsu" (corners stand up) describes a situation where a disagreement becomes apparent or a relationship becomes strained. Conversely, "kado o tatenai" (not making corners stand up) is a common pragmatic goal in Japanese communication, reflecting the cultural emphasis on harmony (wa) by avoiding direct confrontation or bluntness.
Another important nuance is "kado ga toreru" (corners are removed), which describes someone who has become more mellow, flexible, or tactful with age or experience, losing the "sharp edges" of their personality.
Meanings
A place where two lines or surfaces meet; a bend in a road.
角を曲がる。
Turn the corner.
A metaphorical sharpness in a relationship that causes discord or unpleasantness.
角が立つ。
To cause friction.
Examples
テーブルの角に足をぶつけた。
I hit my leg on the corner of the table.
彼は角のある言い方をする。
He has a blunt way of speaking.
この道の角を右に曲がってください。
Please turn right at the corner of this road.
子供が角に頭を打った。
The child hit their head on the corner.